A Few Rules Be over 18: To file a profile or respond to a profile you must be of legal age. Be honest: Don't misrepresent yourself in your profile. This is not fantasy land. My Lavenderdoor is about real women connecting with each other. Be respectful: Treat others with dignity, respect, and decency and expect the same in return. If you do not get it, if someone is offensive, exhibits violence, or is threatening, stop communicating with them and let us know immediately. Be smart : read our online relationship tips and use common sense. Do not give out personal information until you have talked with the person on the phone several times (your instincts are usually sharper when talking to someone in person and you can verify information that has been emailed to you and make sure the person really is a lesbian), and then be sparing. Be Inquisitive: We don't conduct background checks. Therefore, as with any relationship, try to know as much about a person as you can before you agree to meet. Do your research (the Internet is a good place to start), trust your instincts, and, most importantly, have your first meeting in public. No profanity. |